Hidden Dangers in Pleasure: Too Much Masturbation can Damage Nerves and Cause Intercourse Pain
She dreams of becoming a porn star to express her intense sexuality, but excessive masturbation has ceased the pleasure she normally feels during sex. She engages up to eight times per day and as a result feels pain in place of an orgasm. It is still her intent to get into porn, but she must first find a way to heal her tender genitalia.
Case #: 798
Concern：
I’ve considered a career as a porn star. I think it would be fun to experience the inordinate sexual encounters at the peak of my sexual livelihood. And as a young, exotic lady, I know I can become a superstar. I know that I can become a household name. I know I can win awards. Hell, I’m confident I can become the next Jenna what’s-her-name. I have just one minor problem-I masturbate too much with a vibrator, and stimulation causes pain.
I’m not like most girls who masturbate once in a while. No, I masturbate six, seven, eight times a day. Hell, I even keep a masturbation schedule – once before work, twice on my lunch break (an hour is a long time to kill), twice as soon as I get home, and an additional two or three times before I go to sleep (it just depends on how I feel). But now I feel as if my porn career may end before it even begins because masturbation is turning into a painful ordeal.
Each vibration of my best friend leads to aches and pains. Finger stimulation yields the same results. And my skin feels tender to the touch, as if it were tenderized by a meat hammer. Still, I want to get my porn career started, and to do so, I need the pain to go away. Any suggestions?
Discussion：
Just when you probably think sex is the key to getting your porn career off and running, the truth is that you need less stimulation for a while. In fact, you need to stop masturbating altogether; your condition is the result of sexual exhaustion and too much stimulation with vibrators. It’s hard to believe the very toys designed to give pleasure can also bring pain, but it’s true. The best thing you can do right now is give your body a break and focus your mind on something other than sex – you need time to heal.
Understanding the Clitoris
The average female begins masturbating at the onset of puberty. It is a normal behavior that brings pleasure and self-exploration along with stress relief and relaxation. For many women, masturbation is the only way they can experience orgasm because it provides direct stimulation to the clitoris. The vagina is not a sex organ, meaning penetration during intercourse rarely brings women to climax the way stimulating the clit does.
One of the most sensitive parts of the female or male bodies, the clitoris contains an abundance of nerve endings. This organ grows when aroused to ease the process of finding and touching it. And a woman is sure to know when stimulation does occur, because she will likely orgasm within six to 10 minutes.
Too Much of a Good Thing
Despite the pleasure it brings, the clit’s nerve endings were not designed for constant stimulation. The clitoris is so sensitive that it contains a hood that helps cover and protect it. Some women even masturbate with their underclothes on to avoid direct contact with the clitoris. This prevents them from developing a raw and uncomfortable feeling in their genitalia.
It’s important to understand that although masturbation feels good, the body cannot endure six to eight sessions per day. Like so many other people, you enjoy masturbation because of the climax it brings. But frequency of more than two or three times per week is considered excessive, partly because it gives way to addiction but also because it yields physical side effects like the pain you’re experiencing.
Dangers of Sex Toys
In addition to overmasturbation, the sex toys you use have damaged the nerve endings in your clitoris. You must remember that frequently engaging with sex toys can desensitize your sex organs. That means you must continually press harder and longer on your clitoris to reach orgasm. This cycle causes nerve damage that leads to painful sexual responses.
When used in moderation, sex toys can help you explore your own body and find guiltless pleasure. But they shouldn’t be used multiple times per day because they are designed to give constant and sizable stimulation. As already discussed, the clitoris cannot handle such direct contact. It is a tiny organ – ranging in size from between 1/8 to 3/8 of an inch – that will bring pleasure or pain, depending on how you treat it.
Beyond the Pleasures of Masturbation.
The comfort you feel with your own body and masturbation is a positive trait. But your preoccupation with sex is harming rather than helping you. Take the schedule you normally use for masturbation and find other activities that make you happy, such as reading, jogging and meditating.
You should also try a detoxification formula designed to heal the tissues in and around your vagina. (TRY: Regeneration Formula for Vaginal Damage) Herbs have long been heralded for their medicinal properties, and the right blend can improve blood flow to your vagina as well as balance your hormones. It will also relieve pain and help you once again enjoy sex.